Find Confidence In Your Sexuality with the Help of Subliminal Messages
Your sexuality is a huge part of who you are, so if you try to hide, control, or deny your own sexuality, you will not find contentment and peace in your life.
The continuous effort needed in keeping up a front as well as in hiding your true sexuality from people close to you such as your family and friends can be taxing, not only physically, but also emotionally and psychologically. The need to constantly watch what you do, what you say, and how you act coupled with the fear of being discovered and embarrassed can put a heavy pressure on your mind. This will also keep you from accepting and loving yourself.
How will you ever find happiness if you are carrying such a burden?
If you want to be free and happy, subliminal messages may be of help to you. These are messages sent to the subconscious mind, which controls our thoughts, beliefs, habits, impulses, and behavior from within. The subconscious mind is more powerful than the conscious mind. If you strengthen your subconscious mind, you will be better equipped to find confidence in who you are. Subliminal messages can:
1. Change the way you think about yourself and your sexuality. The first step you need to take is to change your own frame of mind. Even some gay people think their being gay is something to be ashamed of. If you are of that perspective, then you are a long distance away from finding happiness and confidence in your sexuality.
If you are gay, believe that being gay is nothing to be ashamed of, and coming out is not a selfish thing to do, but the right thing to do. Tell yourself that you deserve the freedom to express who you are, and you have the right to be who you want to be without being a slave to other people’s opinions. It is not your homosexuality that is the problem, but people’s prejudice and unfair refusal to accept homosexuality.
Thinking more positively about yourself and your sexuality will give you the confidence to be yourself.
2. Give you confidence to come out. It is not enough to accept yourself and come to terms with who you really are. Unless the people around you also come to terms with your sexuality, you will never be completely free. All it takes is just one step out of the closet. Just tell the people who matter to you about your true sexuality. It may be difficult, especially if you are aware that some of your loved ones have prejudices about homosexuals. But once you let it out, you will feel a huge weight being lifted from your shoulders.
But make sure you prepare yourself mentally for anything that may happen or any response you may receive before you go ahead and admit your sexuality. You have to expect negative reactions and be mentally strong to accept it. You have to be ready to wait for people to accept you. You must be prepared to face shock, rejection, embarrassment, and other negative talk.
3. Develop your inner strength. In the face of all the shock and rejection your admission of your true sexuality will cause, you need to find a source of strength so you won’t feel down and burdened. So despite all the negative feedback you receive, you should develop your inner strength so you will survive.
If you are mentally and psychologically strong, then you will be able to keep a rational head in spite of all the negative response. You will remember that your loved ones will also go through their own process of acceptance and that the negative feedback will eventually fade. You must be able to find peace and love from within yourself so you will not feel alone or depressed when no one understands or accepts you yet.
4. Guard against negativity. Instead of focusing on the negative response you will get, think about the benefits you will enjoy once you come out. Spend time enjoying things you did not get to do when you were still hiding your sexuality. Pamper yourself and set yourself free. Keep a positive mindset and allow people around you the time to come to terms with who you are.